Eating my words...

I remember, long before I had kids, I would look at parents of small children and wonder why their kids behaved the way they did. I would never say it, but of course I would think...my children will never behave that way...but of course they do! I remember before I had kids I would see people give their kids junk food and let them stay up late and think they were crazy...and of course I am now that crazy mom! Of course I do try to feed them well...but you'd never know it by the way my 19 month old yells "BURGER" or "CHICKEN NUGGETS" ever time we pass a fast food place! At each stage of parenthood I have said,"How can they let their kids..." but each time I end up eating my words! I think too often as moms we are able to look at other moms and expect that their experience should be just like ours...but as a mom of three I realize that each child is completely different. Each child has been uniquely created by God! They have their personality, fears, strengths, and weaknesses. They have their good days...and their bad. There are many times where I have looked back and wished I had done something differently...but I can't change the past. God gives us those moments of "eating our words" to teach us. I know as a mom I have learned not to be so judgmental of others, to apologize to my children when I make a mistake, and most importantly to trust God with the lives of my children. He loves them even more than I do.

waiting for news...

About 6 years ago we began sponsoring a child through Compassion International. Veniel is now 14 years old now and in 9th grade. Veniel lives in Haiti. When we heard the news of the earthquake in Haiti we immediately began praying for Veniel and his family. Tonight as I tucked our 7 yr. old into bed, he said a prayer for Veniel. He prayed for all of the doctors in Haiti that they would be able to help Veniel if he is hurt. My heart is heavy as I think of the situation, but I love to see how God is using this situation to teach my children compassion for others. We've never met Veniel, but we love him. He sends us letters regularly to tell us about what he is learning in school. He always draws us a picture and includes a scripture that he has read. We hope to hear news soon...please join us in praying for the people of Haiti.

http://blog.compassion.com/haiti-earthquake-update/

Haiti Earthquake

2010 -A New Year!

It is hard to believe that it is a 2010 already! I don't really make New Year's resolutions, but I certainly try to set new goals for myself.

This year I want to... spend more time playing with my kids, and less time disciplining. I want to have more dates with my husband, even if we stay at home. I want to spend more time writing my book and more time reading good books. I want to declutter my home so I can sit down and enjoy it more. I want to invest in other people so they can know JOY in Christ like I do. I want to build deeper friendships with other women. I want to pray more, read my Bible more, and serve Jesus more. I want to watch less TV. I want to eat healthier and exercise more.

My Christmas "letter" blog

Each year I struggle to get out my Christmas cards before Christmas. I actually have trouble getting them out before the new year! Last year I didn't even send one out at all. I decided the reason I always have trouble is that I like to include a Christmas letter. I can never seem to get the letter written..then I have to print it..so this year I'm blogging! So many things have happened over the past two years. It's hard to know where to start!

Tyler is in 1st grade and he really enjoys math. He especially loves doing math facts! He is getting better each day at reading. He enjoys playing soccer and loves having his dad as his coach. He loves to score goals, and even tried being goal keeper this past fall. We celebrated his 7th birthday in October with a trip to Six Flags. He loved the rides and food. After some baptisms at our church earlier in the year, Tyler began asking a lot of questions. He decided to ask Jesus in to his heart! A day of rejoicing in heaven!! He is a tender-hearted boy who loves to help. We are thankful each day that he is part of our family!

In April of 2008, we were able to finalize Tori's adoption. Tori was so excited on that day (even though she didn't really know why!). She woke up around 4am and wanted to get dressed in her adoption dress. We tried to convince her to go back to sleep, but there was no convincing. So needless to say, after the adoption and a breakfast out with family, we went home and slept! Another milestone that same week... her doctors removed her feeding tube after 2 long years. She was a little sad to see it go, but loved to show people her two belly buttons! It's hard to imagine she is the same tiny baby we brought home almost 5 years ago! She is in preK and loves to learn new things. She is always making us laugh with her funny sayings and animated stories. She has a wonderful heart and is always telling others about God's love! On the day we celebrated her first adoption day, she decided to ask Jesus in her heart! What an exciting day!

On June 21, 2008 we welcomed Brooklyn Fay into this world. (7 lbs, 13oz, 21 inches long) The labor was long, there were a few scary moments, but we made it through! My grandparents, Nanno and Baw Baw, came to town to keep Tyler and Tori while all the grandparents were at the hospital. We had decided to keep her name a secret until she arrived. So when asked what her baby sister's name was, Tori responded, "Baby Broccoli." Brooklyn has grown so much since then. She is 18 months old now and growing like a weed! She adds new words to her vocabulary each day! She is already starting to put words together to make small sentences. Just today she said, "go see daddy." She loves to sing and dance when she hears music. She always has a smile on her face.

Ryan and I will celebrate our 8th wedding anniversary in just a few weeks. We have been so incredibly blessed with a beautiful home, a great marriage, wonderful jobs, and 3 fantastic children! We hope that the LOVE of God and the GIFT of our SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST will give you JOY this Christmas! Merry Christmas!

Let the blogging begin...

My husband has tried to get me to blog for years, but I've resisted. I am often resistant to technology. I didn't want a myspace account, but I got one just in time to find that everyone had switched to facebook. Now I have a blog...

As a mom of three kids, 7, 5, and 17 months, I find very little time to do things like this. I have found however that FB has been good moral support and stress relief. I am hoping to find the same in this blog.

I am writing this first entry after a long day of homeschooling, laundry, and recuperating from a weekend away from home. The kids are finally in bed, although I doubt the girls are asleep. There is still much to do before I can settle into bed.